I'm out of town this weekend, attending a seminar on dog aggression, so I'd like to share a post that I wrote a few weeks ago for the Dogs-N-More blog. I was asked to write about my experiences with deaf dogs. People are often surprised when I say that I'm fostering a deaf dog and have another deaf dog of my own. It's not that deaf dogs are so prevalent in my area that I can't find hearing dogs to foster. It's just that I really like working with deaf dogs, and I think they could use a little extra help. So here is the guest post I wrote about my deaf foster dogs.
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This is Tulsa. She was the first deaf dog that I ever fostered. Tulsa didn't know she was deaf. She was a six-month-old puppy, and to her, the world never included any kind of sound. You can't miss what you don't know, and being deaf didn't make a difference to Tulsa at all. She was a normal purebred Australian Cattle Dog, who loved to herd and always needed a job to do in order to be happy. She took to herding Remi, my Great Dane, around the backyard - nipping at his heels to guide him where she wanted him to go. I was relatively new to fostering, and had been a dog owner for less than a year. I wanted to work with deaf dogs, and had jumped at the chance to foster Tulsa. However, my first foster experience with a deaf dog was a total failure. Tulsa was more than I could handle. I forgot one basic rule - a dog is a dog first, their breed second, and their disability last. And as an inexperienced dog owner that worked full time and lived in the suburbs, I was nowhere ready for a young, intelligent, tireless working dog. Fortunately for Tulsa, for Remi and for me, another more experienced foster home (without any Great Danes) was found for Tulsa. And I learned a valuable lesson - don't ever save a dog just because he or she has a disability that draws you in.
Several months and many foster dogs later, I learned of another deaf dog that needed a foster home. Noelle was a four month old puppy, also deaf from birth. She immediately captured my heart. Nothing made Noelle happier than being with her people. She loved to cuddle, and would often lay on top of my feet. I learned this was a common occurence with deaf dogs. Since they can't hear you get up or leave the room, they sleep touching you or across a doorway to be sure they know if you are about to leave them. Noelle kept a close eye on me at all times since she wouldn't be able to hear if I were to do something interesting, like open a bag of dog treats. We went through obedience training together, and Noelle taught me that training a deaf dog isn't harder than training a hearing dog, and in some cases it is actually easier. Deaf dogs aren't distracted by the sounds of other dogs or people or traffic. Dogs respond to signs and body language better than verbal cues, so teaching Noelle was easier than I expected. Some deaf dogs know over fifty signs! Noelle is not one of them.
It was several months after giving in and adopting my foster dog Noelle that I received another request for help with a deaf dog. Chenille was a senior Pomeranian that was deaf. She came from a shelter several hundred miles away. A rescue group had pulled her to adopt her out, and then found out she was deaf. They knew that deaf dogs are harder to find homes for, so in spite of being a beautiful purebred Pomeranian, they felt that she wouldn't have much of a chance finding a home in their rural area. While both Tulsa and Noelle had been deaf from birth, it's likely that Chenille had lost her hearing as she had aged. I thought it might be harder for a dog who used to be able to hear to get used to a world where all communication was done with signs or body language or facial expressions. But Chenille picked up quickly on the same signs I used with Noelle, and in no time she had fit right in.
By this time word had started to spread of my interest in working with deaf dogs, and I received an e-mail about Bella. Bella was a Boxer puppy who was turned in once her owners found out she was deaf. This adorable, smart, sweet puppy was unwanted simply because she couldn't hear. I see it over and over at adoption events when I am fostering a deaf dog. People are sometimes interested in the dog, and then they hear me say that the dog is deaf, and suddenly they began backing away and looking elsewhere. Some people think a deaf dog would be too much work, while others simply think deaf dogs are "defective". In truth, deaf dogs are just like hearing dogs. Some are more work than others - some are better behaved than others, and some are more well trained than others. It always amazes me how people can so quickly lose interest in a dog just because the dog is deaf. Bella taught me how much misinformation is out there about deaf dogs, and how great the bias is against deaf dogs.
Around this same time, a volunteer at a local shelter contacted me about Farley. Farley was a deaf Dalmatian mix that had been waiting at a local shelter for quite awhile. Farley was everything good about dogs. He was gentle, well behaved, smart, fun - an all-around great dog. He had already learned some basic obedience commands at the shelter, and I had him less than two weeks before Farley was adopted!
And then there is Ziggy, my current deaf foster dog. Ziggy is unlike any dog I have fostered before. He is very intelligent, very rambunctious, and very challenging. His deafness hasn't made him harder to communicate with, but it has added a bit of extra physical work on my end. Dogs who are still puppies or not well trained need a lot of supervision. The extra work comes in with deaf dogs, who can't be stopped from whatever they're doing with a simple "hey!" or "no!" from across the room. When Ziggy is counter surfing in the kitchen, I have to physically get off the couch and get his attention before I can sign "drop the bananas, mister!" Of course, the fact that he doesn't immediately drop the bananas has only to do with my lack of training follow-through, not with his lack of hearing or understanding. So if you're considering adopting a deaf dog, and the dog is very young or still needs a lot of work on house manners, make sure you're up for the challenge of getting off the couch or out of the recliner to go get your dog when he does something you don't want him to do.
I've learned a lot from my deaf dogs. I'd like to say they're better, or sweeter, or more appreciative than hearing dogs. But the truth is, they're just like hearing dogs. Some of them bark a lot, and some of them seldom bark. Some of them are cuddly lap dogs, and some of them are busy, independent dogs. They can learn to come to a porch light being flashed on and off instead of a verbal "Come" command at night. Or during the day, they'll quickly spot a raised arm and come running, if they've been trained. Otherwise they'll be just like every other dog at the dog park, and ignore all requests to come when called! One advantage to living with deaf dogs is they are typically sound sleepers. If you want to come home from the store and get all your groceries away before greeting the dog, a deaf dog is a nice advantage. If you don't let them sleep in bed with you, you can even get up in the morning and get all ready for work before they ever wake up. You don't have to worry about your dog being afraid of thunderstorms or fireworks or the vaccum cleaner. And your dog won't go crazy with trying to extract the squeaker from a toy, or refuse to play with a toy that doesn't squeak. All in all, deaf dogs make great companions. You can find out more about deaf dogs at http://www.deafdogs.org/.
Showing posts with label Chenille. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Chenille. Show all posts
Saturday, October 2, 2010
Thursday, March 4, 2010
In Memory of Chenille

From the beginning, everyone who met this sweet little dog seemed to fall in love with her. And the feeling was mutual. Chenille was always happiest when she could sit on a lap and be petted. She was usually very quiet, but she had the funniest habit of barking twice when she wanted something. It was never three or more times – just twice. “Bark bark”. Then silence. If I ignored her, a few minutes later I would again hear her signature “bark bark” - her quiet way to remind me that it was time for dinner.
Chenille was a very easy dog to care for. She liked to curl up in a cat crate and sleep, and then come out when it was time for dinner or petting. She liked other dogs, cats, and of course people of all ages. She liked to curl up on your lap and watch TV with you, and she'd put her paw on your arm to remind you to keep petting her if you stopped. Before long, a very nice couple fell in love with her and decided to foster her until she was ready to be adopted. So Chenille went to stay with her new mom and dad, and I got visiting rights.

So on Tuesday we made the decision to let her go. I said goodbye, then held her while she passed. Her life after being rescued from the shelter wasn’t very long, but I believe she was more loved during those months than ever before in her life. Thank you Jessica, and Dr. Ann, and Janice and Robert, for filling her life with love.
We miss you, sweet girl.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Update on Orca and Chenille


Chenille is living at another foster home who plans to adopt her once she is ready for adoption. She's had some health issues so for now she is still a foster dog. I enjoyed having her stay with me this week. I am waiting until after Thanksgiving to take in any new foster pets, and it'll be very strange to come home to only Remi, Noelle and the cats. Fortunately Chenille has been there this week to make things easier on me. And I already know who I'm taking in next (stay tuned tomorrow!) so I have some new fosters to look forward to in about a week.
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Pawsta for Pets
Having recently joined All Paws Rescue, I haven't gotten very involved in the group yet. Oh sure, I foster for them, and attend just about every adoption event they have, but there is so much more involved in running a rescue. There are phone messages and e-mails to answer, fundraisers to organize, grants to write, not to mention the accounting and paperwork that comes along with running a non-profit organization. I've enjoyed my time doing nothing but fostering, but I'm starting to feel guilty for not helping more. I'm going to start working on some grants soon, and I'm planning to help with an upcoming fundraiser. But I have to be honest with you - I totally hate fundraising. I know most people hate it, but it's one of those necessary evils. And as a foster mom I get to see the need for fundraising more than most. For example, Chenille my foster Pomeranian is having blood work done, and then she'll need a dental on top of her spay surgery and regular vet care - that's going to cost a LOT more than we'll get back in her adoption fee. So I want to help raise money for Chenille and the other pets that All Paws saves every day. I'm just BAD at it. There is a fundraiser this Sunday for All Paws, so several weeks ago I offered to sell some tickets to the spaghetti dinner and some raffle tickets. I got eight tickets, plus a whole stack of raffle tickets to sell. And so far I have sold TWO tickets to the event (thanks Mom and Dad - well, thanks Mom - I don't even think my Dad knows he's going yet). And I've sold absolutely no raffle tickets. I'm pathetic. In a last-ditch desperate attempt to feel better about myself (not to mention to help out All Paws), I'm posting the event here in hopes that someone out there will want to help the animals, (or will feel sorry for me) and will buy a ticket or two. So here's the deal. It's a Spaghetti Dinner with a silent auction this Sunday evening (4-8pm) at the Elks Lodge in O'Fallon, MO. The doors open at 4:00pm, and dinner is served from 5:00pm - 6:30pm. Tickets are $10 for adults or $5 for children under 6 years old. So please, if you don't have plans on Sunday night, come out and support All Paws Rescue. We will have tickets for sale on Saturday at the St. Charles PetSmart at Zumbehl and Hwy 70 between 10am and 3pm, or you can purchase tickets at the door on Sunday.
Now about those raffle tickets... they are raffling off a wheelbarrow full of booze! It is quite an impressive list too - I think there are over 30 bottles of a wide variety of alcohol in there - enough to stock a bar, or have a really long party with all of your friends. And you do not have to be present to win. So if you're interested in purchasing a raffle ticket, they are 1 ticket for $5 or 3 tickets for $10, and they will also be available on Saturday, or at the event on Sunday. Or you can e-mail me to let me know if you'd like to purchase the tickets online! Here is the flyer for the event. I hope to see you there!
Now about those raffle tickets... they are raffling off a wheelbarrow full of booze! It is quite an impressive list too - I think there are over 30 bottles of a wide variety of alcohol in there - enough to stock a bar, or have a really long party with all of your friends. And you do not have to be present to win. So if you're interested in purchasing a raffle ticket, they are 1 ticket for $5 or 3 tickets for $10, and they will also be available on Saturday, or at the event on Sunday. Or you can e-mail me to let me know if you'd like to purchase the tickets online! Here is the flyer for the event. I hope to see you there!
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Update on my fosters - Part 1
Yep, it's time for another Foster Pet update, where I get to list all of the foster pets at my house, and you get to think I'm crazy. But it also gives those of you who want to know about a specific pet a chance to find out how they're doing, so I hope you like these updates from time to time. If nothing else, you can read this post and then feel sorry for my husband. Just remember, HE's the one who made me get a dog three years ago. Up until then, I didn't want a dog, and had been avoiding it as long as possible. So if he hadn't insisted on getting a dog, which led me to discover how many homeless dogs and cats are killed every day, which led me to want to help them, this never would have happened.
Also, as a special bonus, I'm going to include updates on my own pets. Aren't you excited?
Remi - My Great Dane, and one of the largest dogs in the city... well, maybe in our subdivision anyway. He is getting old for a Dane - he turns four this month! He plays less and sleeps more, and he backs down from little poodle/daschund mixes when they bark at him. But my wimpy 160 pound dog is still tough enough to bark at every person and bicycle and truck that goes by our fence - as long as they are on the OTHER side of the fence.
Noelle - My deaf pit bull mix is spending a lot of time lately with my husband Dave as he works on our basement. Even though I am the one who feeds her, pets her, plays with her, and takes care of her every need, she is so his dog. Okay fine, he feeds her and pets her and plays with her also. But that's only because she follows him around everywhere. Maybe she's trying to make up for the fact that she ate his cowboy boots one day last week when he wasn't home.
Lizzy - I call her my child-eating border collie. I'm sure THAT will help her get adopted. She's settled into our house great - which is good, because I have a feeling we will have her for awhile. She loves to play with Noelle, and she listens very well and always just wants attention. It's only when strangers come in the house, or when she sees children that she goes nuts. Minor issue, right?
Skye, Sonic and Snoopy - My foster puppies went to the vet this week and got spayed/neutered. They can't get adopted yet though - even though I had already dewormed them once (remember this?), when they checked at the vet they found the puppies still have hookworms, whipworms, roundworms and coccidia. Somehow I wasn't surprised. So they're stuck with me for another week at least.
Bear - As I mentioned yesterday, Bear is going to be traveling to Maryland with me in a couple of weeks to take part in Puppy Bowl VI. Anyone interested in going with me? We'll only be driving 28 hours in three days with a small puppy in the car. It should be fun!
Chenille - It turns out my sweet, loving deaf Pomeranian is about 12 years old! The shelter originally said she was six years, and I thought she was a little older than that, but not twice that age. I guess it will hurt her chances of finding a home, but senior dogs find homes all the time so hopefully she'll still be adopted. She's so sweet - she's happy just to sit on my lap and be petted.
Dodger - This funny looking guy (sorry, but he is) is starting to settle in to the new routine. Both him and Chenille get canned food instead of dry food and all the other dogs get jealous! He has a very loud bark for such a little dog, and he's not afraid to use it. But he's also playful and friendly, and he does well with the other pets. Even Noelle is getting used to having him around. He's another dog that likes to sit on my lap while I type on the computer. Unfortunately my lap already has a waiting list with the cats and Chenille, so he has to take turns which he doesn't really like. Hopefully he can soon find another home where he will get all the attention he desires.
That's it for the dogs at my house. I'll post an update on the cats tomorrow, so maybe it won't look like I have quite so many. It's worth a try.
Also, as a special bonus, I'm going to include updates on my own pets. Aren't you excited?
That's it for the dogs at my house. I'll post an update on the cats tomorrow, so maybe it won't look like I have quite so many. It's worth a try.
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Introducing Chenille and Dodger
You're not going to believe this. I hardly believe it myself. I took the four puppies to the vet this morning, and they all got pre-adopted! No, not really. The hard-to-believe news is actually that they said they can't neuter Bear yet. They want to give him a little more time to finish, uh... maturing. So they want me to hold onto him for three weeks and then they will recheck him at that time! If I would have just waited one more day to talk about him, I never would have had to admit my embarrassing plan to keep him off the website. Of course I was only planning on holding him an extra week - not an extra three weeks. But I'm not complaining. He's cute enough he'll still be very adoptable in three weeks, and that will give me some extra time to find him the perfect home (i.e. one who will send me regular updates on him).
It's always scary offering to take foster pets sight-unseen. Sometimes I am surprised by how adorable and sweet they are. Sometimes I am surprised by how funny-looking or difficult they are. This week, I've had one of each.
First is Chenille. Someone who knew I have a soft spot for deaf dogs told me about a group looking for help with a deaf Pomeranian. Of course small dogs aren't my thing, but deaf dogs are, so I said I'd take her. I was told she was a senior dog, deaf, not house-trained, expected to be difficult to place - all in all, I expected the worst. But then, thanks to a string of volunteers from Kansas City to St. Louis, this dog showed up.
And not only did she turn out to be beautiful (thanks to a volunteer in Kansas City who got her groomed before sending her my way!) but also so very sweet. She is a bit shy, and hides in her crate sometimes, but she also loves to be held and carried around. She does great with kids, other dogs, and cats. It's true she needs some work on house-training, but she's not going to be hard to adopt like I thought she might. She's at the vet today being spayed and readied for adoption, so I will get her on the website and try to find her a home soon!
Sometimes the opposite happens. A dog that sounds like a very easy adoption on paper turns out to be not so easy. I could be wrong. I hope I'm wrong. But when I was told a poodle mix who is already house-trained and good with other pets needed a temporary foster home, I thought I could get him adopted before he had to go to another longer-term foster home. A poodle mix - how hard is that? But here's Dodger, who showed up at my house last night:
It's not his fault he looks like a Dauschund/Poodle cross with bare spots in his thin fur. It's not his fault he's missing a lot of teeth and has to eat soft food, or that he has allergies. It's not his fault that he's probably younger than Chenille, but looks a lot older. I just hope that someone can see what a great dog he really is and decide to adopt him in spite of those things!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Quick Update
There has been a lot going on this weekend and not much time to take pictures, so I'll post more details with pictures soon. But just because I can't wait to share news with you, I had to tell you now.
First, I have a new foster dog named Chenille. She's the deaf Pomeranian I was waiting for. She came in on Saturday from Kansas City! She's beautiful and a little bit shy and great with other animals and loves to be held. I'm guessing she'll be adopted right away, even though she's mostly deaf and older.
Second, my foster puppies go to the vet tomorrow so they will be ready for adoption hopefully by this weekend. Except for Bear. I am doing an awful thing. I'm going to list his three littermates on the website for adoption, but not him. Don't tell anyone. I am ashamed of myself. But I can't help it - he's my favorite puppy ever. And that's saying a lot, because I've had some pretty awesome puppies, including my own dog Noelle who I got at 4 months old. I just can't bear to put Bear on the website yet (ha). So first I'm going to try to find a home for him with someone I know. Someone who will keep me updated on him and let me see him from time to time. If you know of a really good home who may be interested in adopting the cutest, sweetest puppy ever, let me know. Otherwise I'll put him on the website as soon as his littermates are adopted. I have to make room for more puppies, even if it means giving up the best puppy ever. He is so laid back - he let my niece carry him around like a baby for an hour last night and never wiggled or complained. He's fluffy and cuddly and, well, you just have to meet him and I think you'd fall in love too. I'm sure I'll have more pictures of him soon too.
Third, I'm getting a new foster dog tonight. It's another small dog - a poodle mix. What's the deal with me and small dogs lately? I have never been a small dog person, and with a 160 lb dog of my own, I never expected to foster small dogs because I was afraid they would get stepped on! And yet my four most recent foster dogs are all small dogs. At least they're always in high demand. And they eat less than the big dogs. Less poop to pick up too. (Sorry). I'll have more news on the new foster dog tomorrow I hope.
Fourth, and most exciting for me - I got an inquiry on adopting Scribbles!!! I never thought it would happen. I recently made a video of her though, and I think that caught someone's attention. It's not a great video - but how do you make a great video of a cat who doesn't do anything? It's not easy. So at least it helped her be noticed. It remains to be seen if the inquiry will lead to an application or an adoption, but stay tuned and you'll know when I know! Now I'm motivated to go make videos of all my hard-to-adopt pets. Artemis and Lizzy are next on my list! If you're a foster mom or dad for pets, I highly recommend making a video of your hard-to-place foster pets to help them get adopted. Here are some tips from Petfinder.com. And if you don't have a video camera but can get your fosters to me, I'd be glad to make a video of them for you. I'll help any group, with any pet, as long as you promise not to expect much. :-)
First, I have a new foster dog named Chenille. She's the deaf Pomeranian I was waiting for. She came in on Saturday from Kansas City! She's beautiful and a little bit shy and great with other animals and loves to be held. I'm guessing she'll be adopted right away, even though she's mostly deaf and older.
Second, my foster puppies go to the vet tomorrow so they will be ready for adoption hopefully by this weekend. Except for Bear. I am doing an awful thing. I'm going to list his three littermates on the website for adoption, but not him. Don't tell anyone. I am ashamed of myself. But I can't help it - he's my favorite puppy ever. And that's saying a lot, because I've had some pretty awesome puppies, including my own dog Noelle who I got at 4 months old. I just can't bear to put Bear on the website yet (ha). So first I'm going to try to find a home for him with someone I know. Someone who will keep me updated on him and let me see him from time to time. If you know of a really good home who may be interested in adopting the cutest, sweetest puppy ever, let me know. Otherwise I'll put him on the website as soon as his littermates are adopted. I have to make room for more puppies, even if it means giving up the best puppy ever. He is so laid back - he let my niece carry him around like a baby for an hour last night and never wiggled or complained. He's fluffy and cuddly and, well, you just have to meet him and I think you'd fall in love too. I'm sure I'll have more pictures of him soon too.
Third, I'm getting a new foster dog tonight. It's another small dog - a poodle mix. What's the deal with me and small dogs lately? I have never been a small dog person, and with a 160 lb dog of my own, I never expected to foster small dogs because I was afraid they would get stepped on! And yet my four most recent foster dogs are all small dogs. At least they're always in high demand. And they eat less than the big dogs. Less poop to pick up too. (Sorry). I'll have more news on the new foster dog tomorrow I hope.
Fourth, and most exciting for me - I got an inquiry on adopting Scribbles!!! I never thought it would happen. I recently made a video of her though, and I think that caught someone's attention. It's not a great video - but how do you make a great video of a cat who doesn't do anything? It's not easy. So at least it helped her be noticed. It remains to be seen if the inquiry will lead to an application or an adoption, but stay tuned and you'll know when I know! Now I'm motivated to go make videos of all my hard-to-adopt pets. Artemis and Lizzy are next on my list! If you're a foster mom or dad for pets, I highly recommend making a video of your hard-to-place foster pets to help them get adopted. Here are some tips from Petfinder.com. And if you don't have a video camera but can get your fosters to me, I'd be glad to make a video of them for you. I'll help any group, with any pet, as long as you promise not to expect much. :-)
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